Women and Dresses


 
Question: 
What is the reason that the women in the Church of God wear dresses and skirts all the time?
 
Answer: 

This is a valid and pertinent question for the time in which we live. The response to this question could take pages to answer to deal adequately with the different points that arise in a discussion concerning this subject. I will not write an in-depth study on the subject at this point, but I will share a few reasons and point to consider. 

Women in the Church of God wear long dresses and skirts so that they reflect the holiness and modesty as taught in the scripture. Dress does not make someone holy, but someone who is holy will adorn herself in a way that is in accordance with the scripture. It is important to realize that holiness is a condition of heart, but it affects every area of life.

I Timothy 2:8-10 states “I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

I here insert a lengthy quote from the commentator Adam Clark on Timothy 2:9.
 

That women adorn themselves, kai tas yunaikas en katastol kosmio. The apostle seems to refer here to different parts of the Grecian and Roman dress. The stola seems to have been originally very simple. It was a long piece of cloth, doubled in the middle, and sewed up both sides, leaving room only for the arms; at the top, a piece was cut out, or a slit made, through which the head passed. It hung down to the feet, both before and behind, and was girded with the zona round the body, just under the breasts. It as sometimes made with, sometimes without, sleeves; and, that it might sit the better, it was gathered on each shoulder with a band or buckle. Some of the Greek women wore them open on each side, from the bottom up above the knees, so as to discover a part of the thigh. These were termed phainomarides, showers (discoverers) of the thigh; but it was, in general, only young girls or immodest women who wore them thus.

The katastola seems to have been the same as the pallium or mantle, which, being made nearly in the form of the stola, hung down to the waist, both in back and front, was gathered on the shoulder with a band or buckle, had a hole or slit at the top for the head to pass through, and hung loosely over the stola, without being confined by the zona or girdle. . . . A more modest and becoming dress than the Grecian was never invented; it was, in great measure, revived in England about the year 1805, and in it, simplicity, decency, and elegance were united; but it soon gave place to another mode, in which frippery and nonsense once more prevailed. It was too rational to last; and too much like religions simplicity to be suffered in a land of shadows, and a world of painted outsides.

With shame facedness and sobriety. The stola, catastola, girdle, etc., though simple in themselves, were often highly ornamented both with gold and precious stones; and, both among Grecian and Roman women, the hair was often crisped and curled in the most variegated and complex manner. To this the apostle alludes when he says: . . . Not with plaited hair, or gold, or pearl, or costly raiment. The costly raiment might refer to the materials out of which the raiment was made, and to the workmanship; the gold and pearls, to the ornaments on the raiment.

With shame-facedness or modesty, meta aidous. This would lead them to avoid every thing unbecoming or meretricious in the mode or fashion of their dress.

With sobriety, meta swphrosuvas. Moderation would lead them to avoid all unnecessary expense. They might follow the custom or costume of the country as to dress itself, for nothing was ever more becoming than the Grecian stola, catastola, and zona; but they must not imitate the extravagance of those who, through impurity or little of mind, decked themselves merely to attract the eye of admiration, or set in lying action the tongue of flattery. Woman has been invidiously defined: An animal fond of dress. How long will they permit themselves to be thus degraded?

…When either women or men spend much time, cost, and attention on decorating their persons, it affords a painful proof that within there is little excellence, and that they are endeavoring to supply the want of mind and moral good by the feeble and silly aids of dress and ornament…



Clarke seemed to have caught the sense of Paul's thoughts on dress. The modest dress he described is far from the current world and Christian idea of proper dress. The first-century Christians could follow the general dress style of their culture with some minor modification, but twentieth-century Christian women surely cannot follow today's popular dress standards. The dress standard of the world does not even approach the biblical standards on the subject.

Principles of modesty and Christian dress apply to a man as well as to a women, but there is a difference in their apparel.

Biblical guidelines for women to follow in dress are as follows:
1. It should not pertain unto a man
2. It should be modest
3. Women should dress with shamefacedness.
4. Women should dress with sobriety and moderation.

"Apparel" today is a very general term that means "any article of clothing." In 1611 the word "apparel" meant "loose, long flowing garment?" Look it up in an old Oxford English Dictionary that has the archaic meanings of words. Furthermore, the Greek word is katastole which is an EXACTING WORD, and it is the ONLY place in the Bible where it is used. There are lots of words for clothing, attire, etc., but this word comes from a verb form which means "to lower." It denoted a loose-fitting outer garment, which was LONG. Paul used this word specifically to tell women that they are to wear a long, flowing garment—not a short, tight one. Hence, a women should wear DRESSES. Pants, miniskirts, tight dresses, etc. are not flowing garments.

Deuteronomy 22:5 teaches the following: “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”

The question then arises, does the Old Testament still apply? Isn’t that part of the Mosaic Law that Christ did away with? There are certain things that God abhors and despises. Included in those things are idolatry, deviant sexual behavior, a proud look… the list goes on. Included is the breaking down of the distinction between the genders in clothing. All of these things are eternally wrong because of their nature. Therefore they are not mere Old Testament prohibitions, but abiding principles based on the nature of God himself.

In the scripture, "Breeches" were an article of clothing designed by God for the priests who were all men. The word does not occur very often in scripture, but in every case it's men's apparel (Exodus 28:42, Leviticus 6:10; 16:4). According to the Hebrew lexicon, "breeches" means "trousers that extend to the knee, below the knee, or to the ankles."

Just because our culture approves a certain practice, does not mean that God’s blessings are on it. Any form of dress that breaks down the distinction between male and female is to be avoided because it is an abomination to God. The Word of God, not peer pressure or cultural approval, is our only safe guide.

In Bible days, women did not wear crotched garments. Not only that, women in any society did not wear pants until close to the middle of this century. Even the garments worn by men and women in Bible days were different. The woman wore a long flowing robe, and men wore a shorter and tighter robe. Underneath the woman's robe would be nothing. Underneath the man's robe would be a pair of short pants that would go down to the knees. Whenever a man would have to do some type of labor, such as to team up an ox, pull a trailer or dig a hole, he would pull up his skirt and tuck it in his pants that were under his skirt, and that was called in the Bible "girding up your loins."

Until the last 70 years, most people in this country recognized that pants were men’s apparel and that dresses were women’s apparel, and they dressed accordingly. Our culture’s acceptance of cross-dressing has resulted largely from the influence of television, the placement of women in the workforce, and the pressures of twentieth century feminism. The spirit that brought about this change is clearly contrary to what the Bible teaches.

Pants are also symbol of authority, as evidenced by the saying " I'm the one who wears the pants in the family." The feminist movement has made great inroads into the thinking and mindset of women and men around the world. It is for this reason that even women in the business world wear pants sometimes and dresses at other times--depending upon what they are trying to accomplish. When a women wants to be on the same level as a man, she will usually wear a pant suit to try to eliminate the gender difference. Pants cause a woman to act and walk differently. This difference falls short of the scriptural teaching of shamefacedness and modesty.

As more could be said on the subject, suffice it to say that the Lord requires there to be a clear distinction between the genders. The scriptures teach that a woman be holy, modest, decent, and humble. Christians are not to conform to the world (Rom 12:1-2) but are to be examples of godliness and purity. For some of these stated reasons, the women in the Church of God do not wear pants, but modest dresses and skirts.
 

-Bro. Michael Smith (6/5/06)

 
 

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